I wish I could read the entire article without having to register.
I loved that SITC episode where Berger told Miranda...he's just not that into you. I have had to remind myself of that to kept cool in certain situations numerous times. I can say that I don't care, or it doesn't matter, but even if I'm not actively staring at the phone willing 'him' to call, it might cross my mind a few times. I also remind myself of one of the rules on that list "75 things..." that "If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away" (paraphrased). It's true, I really believe that once I put myself out there and my intentions are clear, everything else is on you padna.