Call me oblivious, but I had no idea that anyone's real name was being listed on LJ community interests. I usually don't check User Info, so I wouldn't know. I had nothing to do with it. I am not a stalker.
I have, however, received instant messages from a certain person on GC telling me not to get married because I'm too young, and that long-distance relationships are a waste of time.
No one's innocent here...especially those who are doing the most finger-wagging.