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After a break up with an abusive boy, I felt sick all the time, didn't want to go to classes, my blood sugars were out of control, etc. I know now that the break up was the best thing for me, but at the time, I loved the guy, even though the relationship was crap. He wanted to jump right into a "friends" thing. So he would call or IM me, and I'd do the same. We'd end up fighting and it was just stupid. I was depressed and I ended up going to counceling to find a balance. It helped more than chatting with my ex on the phone.
My advice is similar to someone's above: Don't call her if you want to end things completely. Call her if you are willing to give her another chance. Giving her a call, I think, would give her something to cling onto even if there is no intention of getting back together. She'll heal eventually. The wounds are still fresh so it could take a while. I'd say that if her friends are still calling you after another month saying she is still acting like this, tell her friends/sisters/whomever to get her into counceling. It will help to talk to someone non-judgemental.
My $.02.
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