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Things that are broken don't mend well.
You can make any relationship last or work if you just . . . stay.
But usually everytime there is a break-up it weakens the feelings a little.
And sometimes the reason why people can get back together is that the feelings have faded enough so that things don' t hurt as badly. The intensity of the relationship grows less, but the familiarity keeps people coming back for more.
But in that situation the amount of passionate love or like has become less than it was, a sad state of affairs.
In your case Craig. ITs like addiction. If you want her to get over it and recover, don't contact her. ITs a process, she is not going to die and as time goes on she will feel better.
If you want to renew her suffering giver her another puff on your crack pipe.
Her friends are harrassing you by calling. This is not your problem anymore and you really can't help her. She had her chance.
You really liked her the ONLY she had to do was not stuff it up. And she stuffed it up.
A week on 10mg of valium and some sleeping aids would speed her recovery.
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