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Hi Cashmoney. I don't know the whole situation and events leading up to your break up. I went through a really rough break-up in my past and I was feeling very depressed and wondering "why", and all the other loss feelings associated with a rough breakup. At the time, I hoped he would call me because I thought "if we can just talk one time, maybe it will work out". But he had his mind up and I am glad we didn't talk about the breakup. It made me realize how wrong we were for each other. It was a horrible first month after the break up, the second month was difficult too, but by the third month, although I still thought about him and wondered "why", I was able to move on. He had called me AND my friends several timesfor 2 weeks right after breaking up with me and it only led me and my friends to think he wanted to get back with me because every time he said how concerned he was and he missed me and loved me and blah blah blah. Finally we all yelled at him to stop and leave us all alone, especially me. I say that as hard as it is to turn your back on someone you once loved, unless you are completely serious about getting back with her and working through the problems, do not do it. It will only make the situation worse. Her reaction is not your problem. She needs to work her feelings out on her own. I was glad that I did because it made me learn so many things about myself I was blind to, and negative patterns in past relationships.
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