Thanks for the kind words, ladies!
I try to be an accomodating bride. I know that you hardley ever can wear your bridesmaid dress again, so I figured if you couldn't, at least we could spend less (though I think they could wear it for New Year's or something like that, hopefully). One of my BMs just files bankruptcy and is going to Africa to volunteer with AIDS orphans for 6 months before the wedding, another is in the UK living near her boyfriend but waitressing for little $$, and the third lost her job right after she got back from maternity leave. Plus they all have to travel to NY for the wedding, so I tried to make it as easy for them as possible!
Michelle - I tried fitday, but so much of what I ate I had to input the nutritional info for, I was going nuts. But I do write it all down for WW, too. The first few days made me realize I had been eating WAY more than I should be!!!! I did buy new jeans this weekend, and while my normal size was a little big, I felt the next size down was a bit tight - but I bought them anyway because I plan to loose more weight! Inspriation ya know!