Yes... what
Polarpi said! The last thing we'd want you worrying about is keeping us informed. It's an honor to share your journey with you.
I'm very sorry that things did not go as you'd hoped but you already have a positive, mature attitude about it. I think you made the right decision. So often we tell young women not to discount houses that aren't their first choices but I think it's equally important not to go with a house just because the option is still there. You need to feel comfortable and happy with the group. If that didn't happen this time... then next time might be quite different.
Best of luck to you in school! Focus on your studies.... meeting new people... and enjoying your college experience. It goes by so quickly!
