Sometimes really great girls slip through the cracks. It's one of the pitfalls of rush.
I believe it was GeekyPenguin who once said something along the lines of that a chapter, any chapter has the right to cut anyone from any of their parties/lists for any reason they want to, and likewise for PNM's cutting any chapter they want from their list of invites for any reason they want to. It may not always have happy endings.....but that's life. I dont mean to be rude or negative, but that's just how things are sometimes. YOu can always encourage her to try COB or go through the next recruitment, and keep staying/getting involved on campus, meeting people, and letting her qualities shine.
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