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I agree with those of you who have said to be there for her to just listen. It is difficult not being judgmental and offering our own opinions, but ultimately she is the one who has to decide what to do. If she goes back to him and it doesn't work out, she needs to make that decision. We can't be the one to say "I told you so". From my own perspective, if this happened to me, I couldn't probably put everything behind me and start anew. But I don't know the history involved here and I know leaving someone is easier said than done. You sound like a good and supportive friend, which is exactly what this woman needs right now. When you are feeling so low, it is easy to isolate yourself and not want to deal with ANYONE, so if you can be there for your friend, even if she unintentionally lashes out at you, that is the best thing you can do.
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