When i was going thru a divorce or even before my divorce, contemplating it, all i wanted was someone to listen.

I knew all that was wrong...did i need that pointed out to me over and over again by caring friends and family? NO. all i
wanted was someone to listen so i can logically sort out in my head how i was feeling. When you offer your 2 cents , and were not talking advice, it only clouds the hate , hurt and confusion. I had a child to think about in my equation so when they are saying Mr. Ex-cutiepatootie is a jerk, i already knew that....... but i had a baby to conisder.

Just listen to her and let her sort out her feelings thru talking. Be the friend who can sit and listen and not offer any advice. She will come to her decision on her own and she will have to live with that her own.