I know you have favorites during rush; but favorites can drastically change during formal recuritment. Don't let your feelings blind you from your goals. Feelings can change by walking though a door of a house you didn't like yesterday. You have felt the hurt of disappointment and now know the beast. Don't let any one house keep you from having a greek experience! I have been where you are! Thought I knew where I wanted to be but Alpha Phi showed me literally where I should be! I have been a happy member over 25 years. Formal rush is all about numbers and most of the time has nothing to do with personal feelings on the chapter's part. If it's too late for formal recruitment then I hope you will sign up for COB. Keep smiling you will find a home or what really happens a home finds you!
