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Originally posted by sageofages
Ok...
my honest first thought was "this guy *wanted* to get caught".
Who walks away and leaves their incriminating emails open where they can "accidentally" be found?
When you add other adults into the mix, a relationship can be come so fragile.
What they need IMMEDIATELY is couples counseling to understand *why* the cheating occurred, whether they are *BOTH* committed to the marriage, and how to repair the trust levels that have been broken. It is not something that can be done "do it yourself" very easily.
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Co-sign. That jumped out like a huge red flag.
He either wants out or wants some changes through lots of talk or counseling.
I agree with what everyone else has said, all you can do is listen and be supportive. Just let her know that you're there no matter what. You didn't say anything wrong, I think you offered sound advice however offering advice of any sort is a dangerous proposition right now. I don't know why anyone would have to know about the counseling. It almost sounds like an excuse. Hopefully they can work through this though.