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Originally posted by adpialumcsuc
Thanks guys!!
I would never say anything bad about him. He truely is a good guy, he just did something that I can't even phathom.
I have talked to her about counseling. He is hesitant because he doesn't want anyone to know. I had suggested that she might want to go to counseling by herself and that maybe after a while he might warm up to the idea. Was that wrong of me to say?
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If he didn't want anyone to know why was he cheating in the first place? Someone else
obviously knows that he was cheating-the girl he was with!
If he is refusing counseling he most likely isn't comitted to her or the marriage. And if I'm wrong & he is committed he doesn't sound like he is willing to change.