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We didn't technically elope... we planned our tiny wedding in advance and our immediate family was there... but it was held out of state and felt like an elopement.
I regret it every day of my life.
That was 13 years ago and we have been very happily married every day since. Yes, the marriage is far more important than the wedding.
But we made the decision for financial and practical reasons and now have memories of a friendless wedding... no traditions... just sheer practicality.
If you even suspect that a traditional wedding would be a blessing to you... than don't elope. Imo, some things are meant to be witnessed and celebrated as part of a community. Let those who love you and those who are merely supportive of you surround you with their care and their presence.
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