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Originally posted by valkyrie
Truer words have never been spoken. Here's the thing that most women are too nice (i.e., wussy) to admit -- it's not nice guys that are the problem -- it's wussy, no-self-esteem-having pushover doofi who don't stand up for themselves.
Let's take an example from valkyrie's dating history. There was this guy, we'll call him Big Loser (BL). BL and I would hang out and I was sort of interested in him until he started letting his BL tendencies show. He'd say stuff like "You're so wonderful...why are you hanging out with me?" and after hearing that a few times I was like you know what dude?! I don't know! Go away.
I think it's human nature for people getting together to sort of test out each other's boundaries in the beginning. Right off the bat, I let it be known that if someone doesn't call when he says he's going to call, that's not cool and I've probably made other plans for the night. I expect a guy to be the same way -- don't be a wuss, and don't let me or anyone else take advantage of you. Guys have such an easy time seeing the difference between an asshole and a nice guy, but sometimes they just can't distinguish a nice guy from a wuss. I don't like assholes, but I'd probably have more fun with one than hanging out with one of those spineless guys who only says "Whatever you want to do is fine, sweetie."
Of course, physical attractiveness figures into the equation as well, but that's a-whole-nother discussion.
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The irony is the weak assed punks that don't have game turn out to be asswipes overall...
That nice guys who folks seem to think finish last--finish best... These guys eventually get the girl of their dreams...
Pansy ass guys work on their game skillz and turn out to be perverts that go to peep shows/XXX stores at 12 noon... And think all the girls at the strip club are his friends, when in all actuality, these guys may need screening for American's Most Wanted Serial Killers...