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Originally posted by winneythepooh7
This conversation came up with my boyfriend and I recently, and I've had this conversation with previous boyfriends. Most guys I've dated think it is appropriate to support their partner financially, with no expectations in return, if they can afford to do so.
I am extremely independent and the thought of a guy paying for things such as a car or school loans (for example) unless I am married to them just doesn't seem right.
This is not to say I pass this judgement on to others if they are in this situation, but for me personally, I don't ever want to feel like I *owe* a guy anything, or hear a line in a fight "I paid for your_____________________ (insert whatever here)" (even if they don't really mean it, but you get the picture).
I think about this kind of stuff because I am not in the type of field where I will probably make a great deal of $$$$$, and most guys unfortunately do make a great deal more than me.
What do you all think?
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You know, if I had a dime for every dollar I spent on chicks in my life....I'd be able to pay for another college education. I've made a decision to stop blowing lots of money on chicks unless they show me mad respect or that they're worth it. I've never been used, that I know of, for money by women. But when I think of the money I've lost on chicks in the past it sometimes pisses me off. These days when I meet new chicks I usually act like I'm broke all the time and that I don't have any money. Thats how I know when I have a chick that likes me....she likes me for myself or the dick. And in my view both are ok enough for me. When I realize this then I start actually spending some cash on them and wine & dine'em all the time.