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Originally posted by BabyP
I have a problem - for some reason I dont like my friends to get close to each other. Here are my reasons : I dont want them to do stuff without me ( I hate being left out ), there are different secrets I tell them, I cant complain about the other friend if they are friends, I dont like if they become closer than they are with me, and I like to be the one making plans not outvoted.
Do you feel this way? I try not to do this but it is so hard.
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I've always had issues with this. Whenever I'm the link - one of three things happen:
1. They get together and become better friends than they are with me (this what I worry least about).
2. They hate each other, and try to turn me against people.
3. They get together and TURN AGAINST me (this is what I worry most about).
BabyP, I think your worry is very legitimate. Not getting any attention is the least of my worries. But, I can't count how many times #2 and 3 has happened.