I wouldn't have a problem with it if I was married. To be honest I would enjoy it. I would be able to work because I wanted too and I could do things I enjoyed. I would of course want to help out, so he wasn't stressed or pressured to feel like he was supporting someone who didn't appreciate it. I wouldn't agree to it if he was just a boyfriend. Thats different because you may break up and have no job/place to live/etc.
I see nothing wrong with a guy wanting to do that. I dated a guy who was like this and I know he liked paying for things because he felt like he was taking care of me. He was also uncomfortable with me paying for things. If your not comfortable with it just tell him, he'll learn to live with it.
Last edited by DawnDZ; 08-18-2004 at 01:27 PM.
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