Hmmm...sounds like someone just saw the movie "Swingers." Remember the discussion in that movie? "See, I used to wait two days, but then everyone waits two days, so I think three days is kind of money...Two's enough not to look anxious, but three's kind of money."
This is all hitting way too close to home for me. About a month and a half ago, a girl I know introduced me to one of her friends at a club. I thought we hit it off right away, and she was acting the same way. She even gave me her number that night. Well, I called her the next day. I don't know or even care if that was the right move or not. But we had good conversations, and went out a couple more times after that and had a good time.
Anyway, it was about three weeks later that I realized that I was always calling her and she never called me. And after about 3 or 4 calls to her with no response, and realizing that she was giving me the cold shoulder, I gave up. Obviously, she has made no effort to contact me since then either. She sure pulled the wool over my eyes. Sometimes I think I have a sign on my back that says, "Girls, Please Blow Me Off." That's what you get for being a nice guy.
I was going to post this little anecdote under its own topic, but when I saw this topic and the responses it generated, it kind of fit in with my story.
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