james,
I think it depends on 1. the girl and 2. the guy (of course, right?)
Seriously, though I am the type of girl that expects timeliness and I am not patient, so I like a guy to call ASAP. And if he says he'll call tomorrow, he better or he is outta sight, outta mind immediately!
But, other girls aren't that way, so that may be bad for them.
Guys also vary to a girl's perception. So, if a guy I met was weird, but somehow got conned into giving him my number, and he seemed to eager, then yeah, I would think he was psycho. If he said he'd call tomorrow, I would secretly be dreading it and hoping he was lying. But, some guys are normal and I am honestly interested in getting to know them better so I really hope they'll call soon.
So, the bottom line is, it is very hard! I mean, how can you tell which kind of girl's phone number you just got? the super-laid-back,don't-call-me-too-soon-or-I'll-think-you're-a-psycho type or the not-patient, timely type? I don't know! Sorry!
BTW, was your friend serious about not calling someone he slept with for 2 weeks, but 2 days for hook-up? Sad!
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