Dewgirl,
You are too funny! I took mine back a couple of times as well, so don't feel too bad... Finally, after he showed up at my place to tell me that he couldn't go out that night (like we'd planned to do all week) and wouldn't give me a reason, I just got fed up with the whole situation, threw a fit, and threw HIM out! Funny, he got real attentive after that, leaving presents at my door, showing up at work on my birthday, etc. Sucking up didn't work on me that time, though. Too little, too late!! So, keep at it. You'll be able to ditch him for good eventually - and you'll feel better and stronger for doing it!
