ok well this seems to have been somewhat resolved already, but - i think a good policy for girls is to basically tell guys the way things will/should be . . . many of my female friends complain about stuff like this, and it's generally a great policy to just take control of the situation - call him, ask him out, start discussions about the relationship , or whatever Guys generally respond well to that - we're lazy and we don't realize you're not, so it's not a big deal if i don't call back right away - i'll get to it later. but if you call, well great! takes it off my shoulders. aight, well there you have it . . . couldn't be simpler, huh? ; )
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