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Nice Guys
There's a lot of truth in this thread. I think that for undergrads the thing is that people are exposed to such a huge environment with way too many options running around. Most guys and girls that leave home for the first time go nuts!!! Hey, it's part of being a young undergrad. Most young women in college, in my opinion, are not ready to settle down. If they did they wouldn't be the ambitious young college women (Goddesses) I used to chase as an undergrad. They would settle down and get hitched. Now in some cases, I did run into those chics that would only go to college to enroll in the "Wife Degree". Usually these were easy to detect and didn't have that ambitious attractiveness that I used to love. Guys are the same way. As a young undergrad, and maybe I'm speaking for myself, we don't want to settle down with a wife/kids. We're in the prime of our youth at the time are ready to rock and roll. I will admit that when the cocky, arrogant, A$$H0L3 side of me would roll out, I generally did a little better with my women. I think for me a lot of it was a pride issue. I would strive to take out the Playboy bunnies to my formals/events. At times, it wasn't even because I liked the girl but it was mostly to impress the boys and supply some good eye candy!!! I remember taking this MEGA B1t3H out to a formal and it was the most horrible thing. She was hootched up to the tee and the boys all enjoyed that but that was it. Anway, I grew up a lot since then and that's just it. These same Guys and Girls, hopefully, will grow up someday and realize that values, respect, and being yourself really do go further than not being yourself. Women deserve as much respect and thought as do men. Cheers~ Boodleboy322
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