on the ladies topic, I need to ask this : UGGGH! I so don’t understand you women! Heres the deal. My roomate (chick) has been after this alumni brother for about two years. He went to work in Japan for a few years and is now back stateside. They kept up with each other, email and the such and they kinda got dirty with it. Anyway, she gets an email from some anonymous chick saying stay away from him, hes a player (which is common knowledge) and he’d break her heart like he did hers. Well, she ignores it and when he comes in town for christmas, he totally disses her. Clowns her in front of all his friends and some brothers and BREAKS her heart in pieces, like stevie nicks, lindsay buckingham style. He tells her and us that he doesn’t want anyrthingt o do with her and for her to leave him alone, yada yada yada. OK, so I get home from chapter retreat last night (I led a recruitment workshop) and they walk in together all over each other. They hook up and spend the night together doing you know what.
Why is it some women always talk a bunch of smack then turn around and do the opposite of what common sense says? This also happened a month ago the exact same scenario with another female friend of mine. She talked the smack after she got clowned and then went back to the guy when he showed her about 3 minutes of attention (all us guys knew what he was going after), but the women seemed totally oblivious to it. FRUSTRASTING!! ALSO it haapend to another female friend of mine last year. And another one 4 years ago. Why do some of yall talk smack and don’t stick with it. It is toally a gals right to do that,but don’ speak the smack. Maybe cause women are more verbal and expressive and guys just shut up? I dunno.
A confused lifesaver.
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