ok i mean seriously, do you just sit around and think of random topics to post about? or have you been lusting after some young girls lately
i don't think dressing "sexualized" as you call it is a rite of passage that happens at a certain age - and i KNOW most mothers don't turn to their daughters and say, "honey, it's time i start dressing you in clothes that draw attention to your breasts, stomach, and butt."
i think a lot (not all) of girls go through this phase in middle school and into high school, when they see the older girls with their more womanly bodies and they want to emmulate that.
but overall i agree with sugarandspice... i think whenever my daughter wants to start dressing more "mature" i'll support her and educate her as how to look more feminine, pretty, and classic.