Quote:
Originally posted by damasa:
Have you ever loved someone and they had
absolutely no idea whatsoever?
Or fell for your best-friend in the entire
world, and then sat around and watched them fall for someone else?
Have you ever denied your feelings for
someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
damasa
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Yes
Yes
and
Yes!
I'm just NOW getting over a relationship that ended almost 7 months ago. I was so deeply in love with my ex and we were planning on getting married. Somewhere along the way I lost him. He changed and became someone I didn't relate to anymore. He didn't bother to tell me how much he loved me or needed me anymore and I felt like things were over. He didn't cry, he didn't try to stop me or change my mind about the decision...
It's funny. I've always been the one dumped. But then I do the dumping and feel worse than ever.
Love sure is a funny thing. The only thing I regret is loaning him money!
NEVER LOAN PEOPLE MONEY YOU DON'T ANTICIPATE GETTING BACK
Had I not loaned him money the closure process would be much easier...but now I'm regretting it and NEEDING that money back badly.
So, I don't know what the purpose of any of this is...but that's my take on things and my single piece of advice!
Amy
PS. Glad to know guys cry and do have emotions. I was beginning to think they were cold hearted you know whats!
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