Sammie, I'm sorry that your boyfriend feels that way about your sorority.

However, you mentioned that your sorority is your family. I think I'm closer to my sorority sisters than I am closer to my blood sisters. I can understand that he has negative views about the system, especially if his loved ones had bad experiences, but does he disrespect your sorority sisters in any way? Does he say things to make you feel uncomfortable? I take great offense when people put down my family (both blood and sorority). But does he just feel negatively about the Greek system as a whole?

And does he know that you are totally impacted by his opinions? If he truly cares for you (which I really hope he does), he would learn to be more accepting because Theta is a part of your life. I'm sure that this man is special, because if he didn't, then you wouldn't be dating him right now. right?

My BF is in the Coast Guard and he leaves for patrol every other two months. I absolutely loathe his being in the military because I hate being without him, but it's something that he's committed to, and because I love him so much, I learned that I must also accept the Coast Guard. It's like a package deal of sorts.

If he's a keeper, then he will learn to be more understanding about how much Theta means to you.

Good luck to you.

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