Hi Girls!! Maybe any of you can offer any advice to me? I would greatly appreciate it!!!
The guy whom I am dating right now, and really like right now for the most part(and is also a close friend) does not respect the idea of a sorority. I LOVE my sorority, Kappa Alpha Theta, and it's really hard for me to choose whether or not to keep on liking him so much or not.
We get along fine except when we talk about Theta or Greek Life. I have tried to tell him how much we Greeks have influenced the community for the better, by our philanthropy and service projects. I have also tried to prove to him how valuable my sisterhood with Theta is. I am being 100% honest when I say that
Theta is my second family; my home away from home He pretty much likes to change the subject whenever I bring up my sorority. He just has a very negative view of Greek life in general, based on his THREE sisters' negative experiences with Greek Life.
I don't know what to do! I mean, he is so great except when we discuss Greek life. I like him a lot...its' sad because he is my close friend and I'm dating him...but his anti-Greek beliefs are really making me reconsider if he is even worth liking.
Any advice?
As to you girls, you guys are so
lucky to have such an understanding boyfriend! I do agree that sorority life does take up a lot of time; but I believe that it is time well spent!
hehee. For me, I put priorities in this order: 1) School. 2) and 3) (tie) Family and Sorority. 4) My Non-Greek friends. 5) My job.
Thanks for reading!
[This message has been edited by sammie17 (edited February 22, 2001).]