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Theta, I totally feel ya!!! My boyfriend is also a restraunt manager and the hours SUCK!!!! We've been together for a little over a year and a half (most of that being long distance too!) and its been really hard. There are times that I completely hate his employer! He rarely gets off on weekends or holidays and they move him around a lot (but I think he's in one location for a while now and its only an hour and a half away!)
I don't blame you for feeling upset, you are totally justified. You deserve your time with him, but he also needs some time to do something he enjoys. Is there anyway he could ask to open more so he'll get off more evenings (even 1 more) or something like that. I also think that val's advice about him getting up a little early for breakfast and you maybe staying up a sometimes might help.
Unfortunately there is no perfect solution. Let me know how it goes! I'm sure I will continue to face these situations!
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