[ilovemyglo]

Originally posted by James
"You'll end up where you were meant to be . . ."

When I read that it sounds either amazingly fatalistic or terifically condscending.

If the relationship was meant to work out it would have or will . . despite what we do . . .

Well gee, if you got cut from every house except the one that no one wants to join, you must be meant to be with them!

Destiny or a perfect match!

I hope no one actually tells people this to reassure them. It would be pretty evil.
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I'm quoting this because James hit the nail on the head back then...let's remember that this thread was started in January 2002...

I just reread this and I have to disagree, with both James and Carnation.
If a person gets cut from all the houses but one- i am not saying that it means they are meant to be "with that one" but rather lets say what is THE TRUTH-
all the other houses didn't want you to be a sister badly enough to ensure it and thus the one house that DID want you around enough to make sure you were invited and/or returned might be worth looking into.

Just another perspective.