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Originally posted by erniegurl00
2. Keep us updated. If you change your mind regarding a rec please let us know. Don't ask for one and then not correspond with us any further.
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I totally understand this one. I had pm'ed someone three times trying to get their info. I gave them the benefit of the doubt. Then, I get a snippy little e-mail telling me she already got a friend of a friend to write one for her.
Just TELL me if you don't need one any longer. Don't make me think I still need to write one for you!!!!!!!!!!!!! Asking someone to write a rec is having them stick their neck out for you in a sense. It is a big favor for someone to write a rec. Treat it as such.
(For the ladies I have written recs for and become friends with, this does not apply to you. Y'all have been great. And I am so glad we have gotten to know one another. But, not everyone is as great as y'all have been.)