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Originally posted by XOMichelle
I think it's complete bs that men think women have to step up to their sexual overdirve to "keep them faithful". It's a moral decision to cheat or not to cheat, and it's a piss-poor excuse to say your girlfriend or wife drove you to cheat by not having sex with you everyday. Take responsibility for your own actions.
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It's not a purely moral argument - if a woman feels that she's not being given enough attention in a relationship, then you'd be perfectly willing to allow her to go elsewhere for that, no?
Sex is a NEED in a relationship - not physical intercourse necessarily, but sexual/intimate contact. If you're not down for meeting each others' needs - and COMPROMISING if your needs are 'lower' than his - then he's perfectly apt to get his needs met elsewhere.
Now, should he break up and find it then? sure - but if he's cheating for that reason, then you'll need to be able to see the causation.
Simply put - if you want to be frigid, find a dude who can deal with that, or you're in for some noise. Sorry, but it's a compatibility issue, just like hating the Yankees or living an active social life.