I hate to admit it, but I can see me where your cousin is about 2 years from now. Weddings are expensive. I really don't know if I'll be able to invite my cousins. But... the mistakes as I see them is consistancy. I will be consistant with my invitations. If I invite a cousin - I invite all cousins. If I invite an aunt - I invite all aunts. I mean, you have to give yourselfs blankets to hide under.
If it weren't for the remark about you "not fitting in" I'd really believe it was just a cost of money, and that, maybe I could understand. But if she's going to blanket her inconsistency with remarks that smell of racism - that's just unacceptable.
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