I actually always like the imprompto (sp?) sisterhood stuff like driving to the otherside of town together to get ice cream or just all going shopping together and buying matching garters to wear under our dresses at pref. one of the most moving things we did though was go out to the quad on campus and sit under Benny (
http://www.bsu.edu/students/admissio...3231--,00.html) with candles and each said something about another sister who had made a difference to her someway (we had each sister draw a name before we started so every sister was mentioned.