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Originally posted by BabyP
Let me ask you something - just because the guy is your man now, doe that mean you should have sex everytime you see each other? They think you are obligated to have sex with them cuz they are your man now. Whenever my man tries that shit with me - i put him on no sex probation - he can just use his hand and lotion. I wonder if husbands try this same thing.
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Gwirlfriend... Do you want to keep this man? If you don't, then do what everyone else here is telling you and drop his ass...
But if you do want to keep this man, then, well, sweetheart, your performance ain't up to snuff... Basically, you ain't layin' IT on him to tire his ass owt... He has to KNOW that if he's dealing with you then he's gonna havta be pullin' an all nighter (sookie-sookie, naw) with deep drilling for new (Kama Sutra) positions...
Besides, he's probably leaving the room and you are feeling robbed and abandoned of affection...
Hey, if you don't want to give it up, just 'cuz you want to keep your wits about yourself, then lay limp and he might give up...
But, probably since both of y'all are youngin's and can actually go all night looonnnngggg, then, you may want to do some "slow motion" with him... One idea is called the "Sets of Nine"... Kinna like a "reps"... Takes some concentration... But, it will keep the sticky spunk in him longer and keep him "stronger"... It works like this, "One deep, 9 short"... "2 deep, 8 short"... "3 deep, 7 short"... Dumbassed boys are incapable of getting to "9 deep, 1 short"...
Also, practice top motions with him. Such as the "spin moves" in quarter turns with some agitation... For some reason, it works wonders... He might slow his roll then...
Margot Anand's books are rather interesting as well as
Tantra.com...
These kinds of things should affect ALL the senses... Sight, sound, touch, smell and taste...
Think about it... Practice makes perfect...
And yeah, my husband tried that chit when we first married, then I did some spin moves on his ass, he had to lock
me outta the bathroom!!!
