Quote:
Originally posted by AKA_Monet
Let him go totally... He needs to get out of sandbox if he cannot play properly...
I like your attitude already in handling this type of break up. To be so young and so positive is a good thing. I wish I thought like you about this kind of stuff when I was your age...
The fact that he is saying stuff, per your statements, that "You haven't lost me yet, its not that easy." bothers me immensely because those are the beginning signs of a "possessiveness" that may lead to "domestic violence"...
If he was tryin' to be a player and dumped you without provacation--I don't care how much stress he thinks you caused him and there is NO EXPLANATION for that--then he whines to get back up with you... No honey, he has more issues than you are equiped to handle... Are you a psychiatrist?
|
Thanks! I am a very optimistic person and I guess that is where my positive attitude stems from.
The "possessiveness"....I'm not concerned about that. I think the context of his comment was more towards the fact that I was sad to see him with someone else. He knows that I've been out with other guys as well. I've seen "possessiveness" and how it leads to domestic violence....this guy by no means would ever do that. (I'm not just being nieve....)
LOL!! No, I'm not a psychiatrist by any means! He does have a lot of issues and I guess that's where the 'I want to be his friend' comes into play. Its like I feel obilgated to listen and talk to him about everything. I can handle most of it....except for when it comes to other girls (one specifically that i know). He's got a confused soul....
Love sucks sometimes and its hard to get over, but ya just gotta suck it up and move on. One day he'll realize what he lost and he'll be sorry!
