[KSUViolet06]

I'm a believer in ending up where you were meant to be. This might be a bit long:

Freshman year I wanted to be Greek, but didn't know which sorority I wanted to be in. I decided to rush, but I dropped after first round, figuring that all those sororities were all " just a bunch of stuck up white girls" who wanted nothing to do with a Black girl.

I chose to focus on other things for most of that year. I did become a sister of the Kappa Phi Club for Christian women soon after school started. It was great. Fun and fellowship with other young Christian women.

Sophomore year I still wanted to be Greek. I kept my grades up and pursued an org I liked- XYZ. They were awesome, although I secretly wondered whether I'd fit in there.

In the winter of that year, things happened and I decided not to pursue XYZ anymore. I always wondered whether some of XYZ's practices went against my religious beliefs. Looking back, I'm glad I didn't pursue them any further b/c it was later confirmed that things were going on over @ XYZ that I wouldn't have agreed with if I'd decided to pursue them further.

Fast forward to Spring of this year. I still really wanted to be Greek, but now I really wasn't sure what sorority I wanted. It was in the middle of COB time where all the other sororities have their informal rush. I saw Sigma's ad in the Greek Beats section of the paper. I was hesitant, but after some encouragement by a few of my Kappa Phi sisters I went to my 1st event......for the rest of the story see Greekchat's Spring 2004 rush thread

I'm glad I made the choice I did. I really believe this is what was meant for me.