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I'm actually quite surprised that the girls told you that over MSN Messenger... that comes a little close to need-to-know members-only Membership Selection information. I will say that such a policy makes sense within the grounds of one year of formal recruitment, but given release figures from year to year I do not know how hard-and-fast such a rule is after each year's formal recruitment sessions.
If that sorority is #1 on your list, I would try to contact an advisor for the organization. Don't necessarily name names, but tell her that you heard some information through the grapevine, and ask her if can she realistically tell you whether you have any chance to be invited back during formal or informal recruitment. She may say that she can't tell you, she may say that you'll have to go through for yourself, she may tell you exactly what the national policy is. If the sisters wanted to make an exception and go through council, an advisor would probably need to be involved anyway...
Other sisters on this board may be willing and able to give further information on this topic, but I'm uncomfortable delving in any further, especially since I am not an expert on such things. I would definitely take the word of national and regional advisors over anything that I would suggest.
That said, I'd still rush again. There may be other groups that would be a good fit for you. It may be your destiny not to belong to a social GLO. -shrug- But you won't know unless you give yourself, and the other sororities, a full chance.
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