For those who are undecided....
Just go through recruitment. YES, you will be cut from houses. YES, there will be some feelings of rejection. But ultimately, recruitment is one week out of your life, and it is an opportunity to learn how to network and "sell" yourself-- something you will be doing constantly in the real world.
If you're not someone who enjoys large groups or being around lots of girls, then I advise against actually joining a sorority. However, I'm sure those of you undecided's out there have given at least some thought as to why you want to join.
Give it a shot. Don't ever go through life wondering, "Well, what if?" about ANYTHING.
A word of caution, however. You are not going into a sorority to pay for your friends. You do need to make an effort to go out, smile and laugh, have fun and engage people.
Going through recruitment in no way obligates you to join a sorority. This is a time to test the waters and determine if the ladies you meet are people who you would consider being friends with.
Remember, college is teeming with wonderful activities for the students in a wide range of areas! Greek Life, Student Gov't, campus ministries, sports, honors societies, service clubs, special interest groups (UCF has a Chocolate Club!!!)! Get involved!
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