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I just want to give you a big gigantic hug! I really do! I think that my response may not be the majority of the caring wonderful positive thinking people that are on greek chat. And, if you were rushing at a less competitive school, I probably would have a different opinion for you.
Do I think you should rush? Yes. But with a HUGH however. If you are as "fragile" as you claim self esteem wise, then yes you may get crushed. Be prepared for the worse. BUT! Weigh that with the "I wonder ifs." You having an outgoing friend already in a sorority is GREAT! Are you still great friends with you? Will she welcome you in her sisterhood? Do you have recommendations FROM EVERY SINGLE SORORITY at UF?
I know many girls who have been crushed by their less than successful rush experience and it does stay with them unfortunately no matter how wonderful they already are! (And I bet you are greater than you give yourself credit for!) However, UF is very competitive and if you feel like you are setting yourself up to fail, then you need to acknowledge that.
If you are a freshman, that will work in your favor. If you decide to rush next year as a sophmore then it becomes harder.
I just get the vibe that you are so tenderhearted and I don't want you to be hurt. Though you may surprise yourself (but noone here on GC) and get the house of your dreams! Regardless, good luck and please keep us all posted.
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