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As a chapter, we once made it a point to just sit and talk without judgements about what is bothering us about being in a sorority, Greek life, or our chapter.
My complaint was that I did not see my big. She had a busy schedule and worked a lot so I rarely got to see her. I was told by an advisor that not all bigs are the greatest. All you can do is do your best to be an awesome sister. I am still sometimes bothered but I do realize it's not her fault. She has a busy life & I have mine. I too am moving into the house in the hopes that I will form friendships and relationships with a lot of the other ladies in the sorority beyond those in my pledge class. I also hope to become a big myself this fall.
Just keep your chin up.
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