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Originally posted by astroAPhi
I was so much happier when I started working to make things better.
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Originally posted by Hpnotiq-Deepher
its not the organization that is failin its the way things are being run so dont wish u were initiated elsewhere, just work to improve the great sisterhood u already are apart of.
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VERY good advice from two classy ladies in two great orgs.
It's not your GLO that's failing; it's the chapter, and believe it or not, YOU are part of the problem.
I hate hearing "I wish I'd gone somewhere else." You know what? Things aren't perfect over at XYZ either. You joined for a reason. Focus on that and what you can do to make things better -- you joined for a lifetime, and if you're ready to cut out NOW, in college, with a great house and a ton of sisters? I gotta tell you, you're not a very good sister.
I know things get tough. TRUST me. I know. And I know things get SO discouraging when it seems like no matter what you do, nothing gets better, and no one will help.
But people will. And they need the leadership. Quit ASKING for leadership; take it. Spearhead a group to go out on a sisterhood activity; start posting sisterly poems and such around the house.
And keep in mind, every semester, the girls change, and so does the sisterhood.