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It's hard with the big and little situation and I understand where you are coming from. I wasn't as close with my big because the way our chapter gave out bigs at the time was based on who was graduating/going inactive, so basically those were the sisters given littles. Also my big lived off campus and due to her cultural background, had a curfew and could not hang out with us late at night. Nothing to do much with commonalities and all that. Not meshing is something that cannot be prevented in all situations. I say put your energy into getting to know other sisters and forming bonds with them. Also, if is unevitable that sisters you were once close with you may drift apart from, that is unfortunately what happens in life, not just in sorority.
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