[33girl]

Living in helps A LOT if you're not feeling connected. You may end up close to people you thought you had nothing in common with -- I know I did.

It sucks to not be close with your big, but you're far from the only one this has happened to. Try and reverse the situation when you take your little sister. It's nice to have a special relationship with your big, but especially if you do random matches it doesn't always happen. If there are a lot of girls feeling the same way, I would bring up changing the method by which bigs get their littles.

Has the chapter been going through a rough time? The "apathy" may not be true apathy, but just feeling burned out - or the seniors may be conciously trying to separate so graduation isn't so painful.

At any rate - the end of the year is often full of stress and such, so just take the summer off and let everyone come back refreshed.