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Originally posted by James
The question is: Would you stay with him anyway ? Or would you let that little reason tear you apart?
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This is not just a little reason - it's a big one. If the guy is willing to have kids but not willing to be married, then he's got issues. Sure, I understand that marriage just isn't for some people. But having children shouldn't be for those people, either. Having a child is a much bigger deal than marriage could ever be.
Besides, if you have children together, what's to keep the children from coming after your money and giving it to the (not)wife?
As for the perception of being married and unhappy but having to stay comment, for some people divorce is not an option, because, well, they just don't believe in it.