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I must say, that was a great post! Everything you said was so true. At one point of my college years, I pursued xyz organization, but after awhile, decided that xyz was for me, but not at that time and said that I was going to wait til grad chapter. I remember my interviews with the members and the questions that were asked. Even though during meetings and things like that, people might ask basic question dealing with "how do I get in", but the members of xyz organization that I was into never asked any in depth questions to see what we knew or didn't. It was the information you can get off the website.
I am still really good friends with some members of xyz and I know a lot of stuff that most would say that I shouldn't, but once I heard that one member said they didn't want to think about someone because they weren't "pretty" enough, that took me over the egde. Like Shelacious stated, people come to organizations for what they hear and so on. So what happens if members don't portray what the organization as a whole is looking for?
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