[astroAPhi]

I know with my chapter, we like girls to wait until at least most of the girls you were active with are graduated or alumnae. So that will usually mean about 2 years, because they don't expect seniors to be very close to freshmen.

The thing that stinks is I really want to help out, and I just graduated. I understand why the "rule" is there: people are likely to favor certain sisters that they were close to or maybe someone is holding a stupid grudge. There are no nearby chapters besides my own that I can help. Arrg. I'm going to help them with Recruitment though, so maybe that will make me feel better.