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Originally posted by TonyB06
This is amazing (as has been this whole thread). In our chapter we tell neos all the time "do not roll out wearing letters or 'nalia unless you know your stuff because you'll be seen and YOU MOST DEFINITELY WILL BE CHALLENGED!" At conventions, I've seen seargeant-at-arms, and other "ole heads," who run into bruhs who don't know what they should. After "dealing" with the bruh, their next question is usually "now who made you? and where is your Dean?" 
Yellowflower cleary needs prayer and counseling as her issues go farrrrr deeper than DST, IMO. But in a way, her story points to the "mysteries" and "secrets" behind all our orgs. They may look odd to outsiders, but there is a reason we do what we do.....
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Personally, I don't go around gripping people who claim to be my soror. I don't see the grip as a real challenge. It is something special amongst known sorors. I'm not one to challenge people anyway. I'm a neo. But there would definitely be proper checks before allowing someone into a chapter meeting. My best friend, who is your soror, had to ask me to leave her house once when I took a Zeta perp to meet her. I had no idea that the girl was perping. She's my cousin's fiance'!!! That was my first time personally witnessing a perp situation. That was before I was a Delta. I thought that my friend may have taken things too far. But when I got my letters and ran up on a couple of perp situations, I felt her. I don't think perps really understand the magnitude of what they are doing. They know it's wrong, but they don't know how deeply wrong it is.