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Originally posted by CASIGKAP
Frankly, for me it's the negativity. When activities are done, it should NOT be an obligation. All girls should be happy to attend & participate. I've seen girls come to something unhappy & just bitching about everything. If you're gonna have that attitude, stay home. I understand legitimate excuses but I've heard things like, "I'd rather be with my boyfriend right now", "How long do we have to stay?", etc.
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Ditto. It's even more difficult for me now as an adivser. You only have those few short years as an undergrad and once those are over, that's it. You can't ever go back to it; anything you missed out on then is gone for good.
And realizing that not everyone is as gung-ho about my chapter and Greek Life as I am and that's okay. I can only do as much as my capabilities will allow, the rest is up to them