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Originally posted by CASIGKAP
I think he feels that b/c they all are doing it, I want to too. Definitely not true.
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Or maybe its him that feels the pressure to get married and he is taking it out on you?
Honestly, as long as he isn't living off of your dime, if he doesn't want to jump start his career right now I wouldn't worry about it. Let him have his time away from work/school. Letting him do it on his own time is crucial and you'll get to see how really motivated he is on his own. If he never gets that job you may consider moving on.
But if you are supporting him you might just want to mention it to him that you can't support him by yourself and that a little help in the job department might be necessary. You could explain that you aren't trying to force him into a career you just need some financial help.